FEMALE MASSAGE OR YONI: Literally means “sacred place or temple”. In Tantra, the vagina is the worshiped sacred part of the woman’s body, which must be treated with care and respect. Yoni massage is a sensual body shape that can build trust between the donor and recipient, as well as connect the receiver to its inner sensual nature resulting in a feeling of complete well-being, satisfaction and joy. Although Yoni massage can be very stimulating, the purpose is not to bring women to orgasm. Rather, it is to relax the receiver and to make the emotions surface so that she is free to express her powerful, natural, natural, orgasmic. The experiences and sensations that a woman can have during the Yoni massage can be very different, ranging from anger, lust, sadness, or even indifference. Everything is possible and everything is allowed. Yoni massage is not about focusing on a special kind of feeling or fulfilling a particular expectation. The idea is simply to witness the recipient and to honor and respect their feminine nature as a divine goddess. Before beginning the massage, you should look into each other’s eyes as you embrace and engage in deep, relaxed, synchronized breathing. In this way, the donor and the receiver are connected to a deep level, creating the opening and the ground on which the yoni massage will grow. Both the donor and recipient should remember to keep their breathing deep, slow and relaxed throughout the process. When both are ready to begin the massage, the woman lies on her back with a pillow under her head and another under her hips to elevate the pelvis. She bends her knees and opens her legs to expose her Yoni. Sit comfortably between your legs with your legs crossed. You may want to sit on a pillow or cushion. Begin by massaging other parts of your body to encourage relaxation, start taking deep breaths, and relax your muscles. Gently but firmly massage the legs, thighs, stomach, chest and arms before venturing into the Yoni.
Then massage the pubic area and then move to the inner thigh area. With the right hand (the right hand is used to balance the polarity of the Tantra), apply a high quality oil or lubricant to the Yoni mound, which pours enough to drip from the labia majora and covers the exterior of the Yoni. Gently rub the oil on the outer lips of the Yoni. With your thumb and index finger, gently squeeze each lip, sliding your fingers up and down the entire length of each lip. Then repeat this process closely with each inner lip of the vagina, varying the pressure and speed of the touch based on what feels good. Then gently rub the clitoris in a circular motion, to the right and to the left.Then squeeze the clitoris between the thumb and forefinger. Then, slowly and carefully, insert your middle finger into your Yoni. Very gently explore and massage the inside of the Yoni with your finger. Variation of the speed and depth of your finger, feel inside the Yoni up, down and around. With the palm up and the finger inside Yoni of your partner, bend your finger to make contact with your G-spot, known as the “sacred place” in Tantra. Continue the massage, testing different speeds, pressures and movements . Hold your breath and look lost in the other’s eyes.
You can have powerful emotions arise and you feel like crying or laughing. This is simply the blocked energy that is released and is very healing. Just hold your breath as the massage continues. If orgasm occurs, continue breathing. Do not hold back, scream, shout, release energy and emotions. This is your safe healing time. And remember that breathing is very important to continuously move the energy throughout the body. This also improves the healing aspect of yoni massage. More orgasms can occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “the wave”. Many women can learn to be multi-orgasmic with the Yoni massage and the patient, loving partner.Keep the massage until told otherwise. Very slowly, carefully, and consciously remove the hands. The Yoni massage creates a space for the woman to relax and get into a state of great excitement and experience so much pleasure from her Yoni. Let her just lie there, maybe cover her with a blanket making a hot cocoon around her body, and let her enjoy the glow of the Yoni massage. This is a time of great deep peace as you experience the joy of witnessing this special moment.